The Plan Builder walks you through the decisions most families avoid — in small steps, plain language, with a confirmation at every turn. Save where you are. Come back tomorrow.
Who lives in your household. Who is already carrying something you'd like to share. We don't make you pick a plan yet — we ask what's true.
A will or trust, depending on your state. Power of attorney. Healthcare proxy. Plain drafts first, with a licensed attorney review before anything is final.
Banks, retirement, real estate, digital. Names and locations only — we never ask for passwords. Your executor will know where to look.
Disposition, ceremony, readings, music, words for an officiant. Small questions in a warm tone. You can say "I don't know yet" to any of them.
Who can see what, when. Each steward gets a letter in the mail explaining what you've asked of them, and how Vestry works. Nothing is assumed.
Once a year, we send you everything you've entered — on paper, in a bound register. Read it over tea. Change what's changed. Return it to the room.